trying to provison vagrant manually and getting error - ansible

Question

I am trying to provision vagrant with the playbook I wrote but when I do im getting an error about the host.
this is my Vagrant file:
Vagrant.configure("2") do |config|
VAGRANT_DEFAULT_PROVIDER = "virtualbox"
config.vm.hostname = "carebox-idan"
#config.vm.provision "ansible", playbook: "playbook.yml"
config.vm.network "public_network", ip: "192.168.56.4", bridge: ["en0: Wi-Fi (Wireless)"]
config.vm.box = "laravel/homestead"
config.vm.network "forwarded_port", guest: 8200, host: 8200, auto_correct: "true"
config.ssh.forward_agent = true
end
this is my playbook.yml:
---
- name: Playbook to install and use Vault
become: true
hosts: server1
#gather_facts: no
tasks:
- name: Uptade1
become: true
become_user: root
shell: uname -a
register: bla
- debug:
msg: "{{ bla.stdout }}"
- name: Uptade1
become: true
become_user: root
shell: apt update
- name: gpg
become: true
become_user: root
shell: apt install gpg
- name: verify key
become: true
become_user: root
shell: wget -O- https://apt.releases.hashicorp.com/gpg | gpg --dearmor | sudo tee /usr/share/keyrings/hashicorp-archive-keyring.gpg >/dev/null
- name: fingerprint
become: true
become_user: root
shell: gpg --no-default-keyring --keyring /usr/share/keyrings/hashicorp-archive-keyring.gpg --fingerprint
- name: repository
become: true
become_user: root
shell: echo "deb [signed-by=/usr/share/keyrings/hashicorp-archive-keyring.gpg] https://apt.releases.hashicorp.com $(lsb_release -cs) main" | sudo tee /etc/apt/sources.list.d/hashicorp.list
- name: update2
become: true
become_user: root
shell: apt update
- name: vault install
become: true
become_user: root
shell: apt install vault
this is my inventory:
all:
hosts:
server1:
ansible_host: 192.168.56.4
the error I get while using this command - ansible-playbook -i /Users/idan/carebox/inventory.yml playbook.yml is:
fatal: [server1]: UNREACHABLE! => {"changed": false, "msg": "Failed to connect to the host via ssh: ssh: connect to host 192.168.56.4 port 22: Operation timed out", "unreachable": true}
PLAY RECAP *********************************************************************
server1 : ok=0 changed=0 unreachable=1 failed=0 skipped=0 rescued=0 ignored=0
I tried changing the host ip in the inventory to 127.0.0.1 and it says the same but with "connection refused"
or 0.0.0.0 but it keeps giving this error.
I also tried making the ip in Vagrntfile to "private_key" and It also didn't work.
it only works if I am provisioning in the vagrant up but I want to do it manually after I start vagrant, with the command I wrote here above.
I would really like some help, thank you!