Elastic search combine must and must_not - elasticsearch

Question

I have a document that holds data for a product the mapping is as follow:
"mappings" : {
"properties" : {
"view_score" : {
"positive_score_impact" : true,
"type" : "rank_feature"
},
"recipients" : {
"dynamic" : false,
"type" : "nested",
"enabled" : true,
"properties" : {
"type" : {
"similarity" : "boolean",
"type" : "keyword"
},
"title" : {
"type" : "text",
"fields" : {
"key" : {
"type" : "keyword"
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
And I have 2 documents with the following data:
{
"view_score": 10,
"recipients": [{"type":"gender", "title":"male"}, {"type":"gender", "title":"female"}]
}
{
"view_score": 10,
"recipients": [{"type":"gender", "title":"female"}]
}
When a user searches for a product she can say "I prefer products for females" so The products which specifies gender as just female should come before products that specifies gender as male and female both.
I have the following query which gives more score to products with just female gender:
GET _search
{
"sort": [
"_score"
],
"query": {
"script_score": {
"query": {
"bool": {
"should": [
{
"nested": {
"path": "recipients",
"ignore_unmapped": true,
"query": {
"bool": {
"boost": 10,
"must": [
{
"term": {
"recipients.type": "gender"
}
},
{
"match": {
"recipients.title": "female"
}
}
],
"must_not": {
"bool": {
"filter": [
{
"term": {
"recipients.type": "gender"
}
},
{
"match": {
"recipients.title": "male"
}
}
]
}
}
}
}
}
}
]
}
},
"script": {
"source": "return _score;"
}
}
}
}
But if I add another query to should query it won't behave the same and gives the same score to products with one or two genders in their specifications.
here is my final query which wont work as expected:
GET _search
{
"sort": [
"_score"
],
"query": {
"script_score": {
"query": {
"bool": {
"should": [
{
"rank_feature": {
"field": "view_score",
"linear": {}
}
},
{
"nested": {
"path": "recipients",
"ignore_unmapped": true,
"query": {
"bool": {
"boost": 10,
"must": [
{
"term": {
"recipients.type": "gender"
}
},
{
"match": {
"recipients.title": "female"
}
}
],
"must_not": {
"bool": {
"filter": [
{
"term": {
"recipients.type": "gender"
}
},
{
"match": {
"recipients.title": "male"
}
}
]
}
}
}
}
}
}
]
}
},
"script": {
"source": "return _score;"
}
}
}
}
So my problem is how to combine these should clause together to give more weight to the products that specify only one gender.